You, Me, All of Us: Your Handy Guide to Sex Orgies and Orgy Etiquette

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Sex is a natural part of life, we all know that. But some kinds of sex have been persistent throughout the millennia. For example, human beings have been having sex orgies since the dawn of Western civilization, at least!

When a person hears about an orgy or a sex party they may think that they are in for a fun and exciting time. What people do not know is that there are rules and etiquette for such events. When being involved in group sex there are is a code to conduct that must be followed to ensure that everyone has a good time.

Approach It Naturally

If you are interested in group sex, you should bring it up with your partner. This should be brought up in a natural way and you should be aware of the reaction of the other person. You will be able to tell if someone is thinking about it or if they are not open to it. Some people will go for it right away while others may need some time to think about it.



If you are close to the person you can go right ahead and ask if they are interested. You may find out that this has been something that has been on their mind for a long time. If they are not into it, move on. You may even have a good laugh about it in the future.

If You Are a First Timer, Say So

When involved in group sex, it is okay to be nervous — especially if it is your first time. You need to communicate this with others. This so important, especially because you’ll be having NSA sex with strangers.

This is also a good conversation starter and can lighten the mood. They will introduce themselves and everyone can take some time to get to know each other before the sex begins.

You should not pretend that you are an expert or even know what you are doing. Sex is supposed to be fun. At times it can also make most people nervous. If you are nervous, speak up. This is a great way to get to know the others and they will help you feel relaxed. Others may even instruct you on what to do and how things work.

Have the STI Conversation

This conversation is something that must be had before having sex with others.

While condoms can reduce the risk of getting a sexually transmitted infection, it is not 100 percent safe. The more sex partners you have, the greater your risk for getting an STI is. You need to decide how much risk you are willing to take during sex.

Many people involved in orgies are all for safe sex. It is important to share your STI status before having sex. You need to learn how to get comfortable talking about it. If you do have an STI, you need to tell the others about it and what you are doing to treat it.

If you are not comfortable talking about your STI status, you need to be upfront about this. If you do not want to disclose your status, do not be offended if people do not want to have sex with you.

Talk About Boundaries

If you do not want to do something, it is okay to say so. If you do not want to participate in a certain act, you can tell the others this. They may have some boundaries they want to talk about, as well.

Everyone should talk about their intentions and what they would like to get out of this experience. They should also talk about any sexual desires and the acts that everyone would like to see happen during the orgy. When going with a partner many people like to stay together and share the experience with them.

Leave If Needed

If you get to the sex party and you are not into it, you are free to leave. A sex party should be something that you want to participate in and no something that you feel like you are being forced to do.

If you begin the act and do not feel comfortable, you can stop and leave. There will always be chances to have some fun and pleasure.

Get Consent

There are going to be some new actions and some actions during the orgy. Every new act is going to need consent. Verbal consent is going to be required for every new action that takes place.

If you are liking something and the other person stops you can tell them how much you enjoyed it and ask if they would keep going. This will open up the communication. If you do not like something you can say so as well. This will make sure everyone has a fun and exciting time. Regular check-ins are important.

Get a Good Bed

While an average bed may be okay for two people fooling around, in an orgy, there are going to be more bodies and the bed is going to need to hold a lot more weight. There also has to be room for everyone to fit.

Make sure the equipment is good and everyone feels comfortable. At one point it is more than likely someone will end up on the floor. Sometimes it is by choice, other times it is by accident.

Look Good & Be Hygenic 

When going to a sex party you are going to want to feel good about yourself. Men and women should be aware of proper grooming before going. Take the time to get some new undergarments, as well. This will help improve your confidence and allow you to feel sexy.

You also shouldn’t show up to orgy smelling like you just did two hours of cardio at the gym. Remember, you’re going to be up close and personal with several people. For their sake, please shower beforehand and put on some nice cologne. You might even want to shave your pubic hair, get a wax, trim your beard, coiffe your hair nice, etc. 

Treat it like you’re going to out on a date. After all, you’re going to be doing much more than having dinner.

Be Open-Minded

While you do not need to do anything that you do not want to do or anything that makes you feel unsafe, there may be some things that you may not have thought of that may end up being fun. You can lower your inhibitions and just go for it. You can really enjoy some new experiences.

Remember, It’s Not Porn

When you are watching orgies in porn there is a director that tells everyone where to go and keeps things moving along. In real life, you need to figure out all of these moves on your own. There is a good chance it will not be seamless and there may be an awkward moment from time to time. If that happens, just move on and continue the fun.

Learn Some Sex Lingo

In an orgy, different sex acts may be called different things. Be sure to know what is going on. When getting with people that speak another language, learn some common words and phrases. Also, learn any slang terms that may be used for the different positions and the different acts.

If someone tells you they want to “69,” you’re going to want to know what that means. We promise you that.

Follow the Rules

It sounds redundant, but this is one of the most important rules of orgies: follow the rules. This will help keep everyone safe and allow them to be comfortable.

There may even be rules about where to put your clothes or if there is a costume party you need to dress up to go along with the theme. If it’s a pool party, bring a bathing suit. And remember, no always means no. If someone says no, remember that just because it is a sex party no is still going to mean no.

Each orgy will have different sets of specific etiquette and whoever is running it will most likely make the rules clear to you.

Have Fun With It

Sex is a blast, and it’s good for you, too! Do not be afraid to show that you are having a good time or even make some jokes. Sometimes people can get uptight. Be sure to relax and enjoy a good laugh. It is a party after all so treat it like it will be a good time.

When engaging in group sex, it is important that everyone involved has fun and has a good time.

Sex should be fun and exciting. Group sex can be a good time and a great new experience. Following these basic guidelines will help make sure everyone involved in the sex act has a good time and can get some pleasure from the things that they do.

Ready for Some Sex Orgies?

Sex orgies can be intimidating, but hopefully, with these tips for good etiquette, you’ll be able to feel comfortable and secure at a sex party. 

Now, you can organize an orgy with whoever you’d like, but in Nevada, there are all sorts of legal brothels you can visit to get your sexual appetites satiated. Be sure to visit the Legal Brothels section of our website, if you’re interested.



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